Inside Jokes by The Marriage Minute

Inside jokes
​Couples who laugh together last together. 

Humor is a powerful repair technique. It can lower the tension of an argument, reduce the division between you and your partner, and remind you that you’re human.

A well-timed inside joke can shift the focus away from your fixed position and toward your shared we-ness. 

Remember that repair attempts are the secret weapon of emotionally intelligent couples. Inside jokes are the most secret because they're your secret.

Action of the day: Watch this clip of Dr. Gottman explaining how to create more shared humor in your marriage. 

Additional reading: 

• H is for Humor
• 3 Research-Based Tips for a Happy and Healthy Relationship
• 3 Daily Habits That are Better for Your Marriage Than an Exotic Vacation